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Company Culture Tips by Ben Horowitz

The best book I’ve read on how to build a winning company culture.

What You Do is Who You Are by Ben Horowitz.

Here are 14 actionable principles from the book that I share with all my founders:

1/ Start today. 

No matter whether it’s just you and your cofounder, or a team of 50, designing your culture is always relevant and necessary!

2/ Don’t strive for perfection.

Your culture is a compass, not a destination.

No matter the size of your company, there will always be violations.

The point is to have a clear North and get closer to it every single day.

3/ Get inspired by others but don’t copy their culture.

Draw inspiration from other companies, but never try to fit their practices into your culture.

For your culture to be vibrant and strong, it has to come from the blood, from who you really are.

4/ Be yourself.

If you are not yourself, even you won’t follow you!

And remember that not everyone will like you…

But trying to get everyone to like you will make things worse.

5/ Be yourself but think carefully about your flaws.

Because you don’t want to program your flaws into your culture.

Create systems and rules for these flaws. 

Do you love to talk on and on in team meetings? Demand a tightly phrased written agenda for all your meetings.

6/ Create a Shocking Rule

When Facebook was trying to catch up with MySpace, Zuckerberg created a rule: Move fast and break things.

Break things? What???

It must create a WTF reaction.. which means people won’t forget.

Everyone will have a clear direction.

7/ Align your culture with your mission.

Apple builds the most beautiful, perfectly designed products in the world.

Could frugality ever be an Apple value? 

That would be counterproductive!

Apple’s decision to spend $5 billion on its sleek headquarters was the right one. 😉 

8/ Allow room for subcultures. 

It’s impossible to have a company where everyone is perfectly aligned with a single and cohesive culture.

Your engineers may like to “dress casually” and that’s fine—but your salespeople may have to “dress to kill”.

9/ Be specific and explicit.

“Our value is integrity.” 

Okay, but what does integrity mean? 

Does it clarify with precision how people should behave?

Unless you can provide specific examples of how one can practice integrity, better design your culture with a different value.

10/ Come up with something unique about yourself. 

If you’re in Silicon Valley, there’s no need to make casual dress a virtue, because that’s the default behaviour.

But if you’re a technology company and you want everyone to wear a suit and tie, that will define your culture.

11/ Be flexible. 

Cultural rules often become bloated sacred cows.

Everyone tiptoes around them, trying to respect the culture—and then the cows topple and crush you!

As strategies evolve, circumstances change, and you learn new things, rules can and must change too.

12/ Walk the Talk.

“Do as I say, not as I do” never works.

Your people will not practice the values you have on your website, they will do as you do.

13/ Think hard about your employee cultural orientation.

An new employee’s first day at work makes a lasting impression.

People learn more about what it takes to succeed in your company on that day than on any other.

Don’t let that first impression be wrong or accidental.

14/ Make decisions that demonstrate priorities.

A situation when you’re faced with a tough decision is a great opportunity to demonstrate your cultural values.

Use those situations to send a clear signal about who you are and what you value.

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How to Have Tough Conversations

Want to talk to them but you’re afraid that your relationship will suffer?

Worried about falling out with them?

Here’s my step-by-step framework on how to have any tough conversation with confidence:

[Stage #1: Acceptance]

1.1. – Name and accept all your feelings.

Fear? Worry? Frustration? Anger? 

Disappointment?

They are all welcome—and 100% valid.

1.2 – Locate these feelings in your body.

Where are you feeling them? Chest? Head? Stomach?

Focus on the sensations and stay with them.

No sensations? Still good.

1.3 – Are you thinking about worst-case scenarios or comforting yourself that it’s safe to open up?

Stop.

If your unconscious has perceived a “threat”, it’s a done deal.

Don’t “think down”, fight or deny your feelings—you only make them more intense!

Welcome ALL feelings!

[Stage #2: Preparation]

2.1 – See things from their perspective.

What can they see that you can’t see?

What information do they have that you may not have?

How may have your actions impacted them in a way outside your intentions?

What does this situation mean to them?

2.2 – Ensure you have the right setting for the conversation.

Is the physical environment conducive?

Do you have privacy?

Do you have all the time you need?

Are you both in a good state to have a frank discussion?

Find a neutral place, a park, a coffee shop.

[Stage #3: Taking to Them]

3.1 – Audit your thoughts.

Are you criticising, judging, or blaming them in your head?

“You don’t respect me, how could you have said this in the meeting?”.

These statements won’t get you what you want and they’ll make them reactive!

Do this…

3.2 – Focus only on facts.

Don’t say: I think you should step up your game. You’re not working as hard as you used to.

Say: You missed three deadlines this quarter. You committed to doing x on the weekend, but you still haven’t done it.

3.3 – Communicate the core feeling in relation to what they said or did.

Say: When we miss deadlines, I feel worried that our investors will lose confidence in us.

💡 I said “in relation to”, not “because” what they did.

*WE* are responsible for our feelings—no one else!

3.4 – Communicate your need, values, and anything important for you that is not being met.

Say:

I want to make sure we’re on track for our next raise by Q2.

I want us to get back to double-digit growth.

3.5 – Propose concrete actions.

Say:

Can we meet for 30min every Monday to make sure you have everything you need to do your work?

Can you let me know well in advance if there’s a risk that you won’t meet the deadline?

[Stage #4: Listening to Them]

4.1 – Listen for their core needs and feelings.

Say:

I told you how I felt but how did *you* feel when I said that?

What’s important for you here? I want to understand and see how I can help.

4.2. – If they get into a defensive or blaming mode, help them filter out the toxicity from their message.

Say: 

I see you’re frustrated, what were you trying to achieve by doing x?

Do you propose any changes to our strategy?

How else could I support you?

4.3 – If they mention that they feel hurt, accept it.

Say:

I’m sorry to hear that you feel hurt. It was not my intention to hurt you.

I wanted to communicate my concerns to you and find ways to work more efficiently together.

You made it to the end and thanks for reading.

Every tough conversation is a hidden opportunity.

The more you practice this process and reach an agreement, the more trust you build in each other. 💪 

There’s a win for you, a win for them, and a win for your relationship here.

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Why You Should Ask your Cofounder for Help

Why asking your cofounder for help is crucial…

I’ve coached more than 120 founders and I see this pattern again and again…

Founders are afraid to open up or show up vulnerable to their cofounders.

Wrong. And here’s why:

I respect you for being heroic and taking so much on your shoulders. 

It shows your character—and I admire you.

It comes with a lot of short-term bonuses too.

You receive the admiration and respect of your cofounder, you win everyday battles until…

One day you realise that it’s not sustainable anymore!

When you no longer can be heroic, the “self” will try to correct the imbalance, ie. being heroic vs receiving someone else’s heroism.

How? 

Through emotions of anger, frustration, and irritation.

And then your cofounder starts picking up these emotions.

They may say something that you’d normally consider “innocent”, to which you now react because of all these piled-up emotions.

Your cofounder is confused: “Where did that come from? Why is he/she behaving like that?”

You see… this is the perfect recipe for damaging a relationship.

This is much worse than asking for help and showing up vulnerable. 

Opening up and asking for help is not easy.

I understand.

It also requires trust.

But the sooner you test that trust, the better.

You have to “expose yourself” as early as possible in your relationship with your cofounder to test and solidify that trust.

Another reason founders are reluctant to ask for support has to do with the typical “resilient founder” stereotype. 

Founders are machines, suck it up and drive on, right?

Yes and no.

Founders are smart too.

True resilience means you tell your cofounder or the team when you’re not feeling resilient so that they can step in and help you.

This is how you two together—and the whole team—become “collectively resilient”.

This is the basic idea of risk management:

Everyone in the team steps in to save one or more members of the team.

That’s the leverage you have in a startup. A cohesive team, fast flow of information, and strong trust.

Otherwise, what’s the point of this startup?

And this cohesive, aligned, streamlined team in which everyone trusts each other is to what you want to keep invariant as the team grows—so that you build a strong company culture.

To take this a little further… 

This inner work, the trust, the vulnerability, the team spirit are your hedges against “failure” if this thing doesn’t go.

And it’s what will give you as cofounders and team a real sense of fulfilment during the hard times until you succeed.

Ask for the support you need. Open up. Communicate. Trust your cofounder.

This is leadership and this is what you want to instil in all your team as you grow.

Developing a strong relationship with your cofounder is the biggest investment.

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Secrets of Fundraising

The secret of fundraising is not your amazing product, the market, your deck or your unique value proposition.

Here’s how you win a VC and stay motivated throughout the fundraising process.

I call it Conscious Pitching.

What most founders forget: VCs are human beings. 

They are governed by fear, they have doubts, they’re stressed, they get greedy, they have limiting beliefs, they make irrational decisions, they need time to trust, they become emotional, they’re anxious about delivering results, they get bored, they’re impatient and talk to 15 founders a day and searching for a needle in a haystack.

For all these reasons, don’t just fire your pitch.

Be conscious.

Connect with the human being behind the VC.

How can you enjoy these 30 minutes with this human being?

Whether they bet on you or 

Because only one thing is certain: Whether they decide to invest in your or not, after you’ve had that chat, those 30 minutes of your life and their lives are gone forever.

Don’t waste those 30 minutes.

Be candid, share both your excitement and your doubts, and build a relationship with them.

A relationship that can benefit you and them today, in 5 years, or in six months.

Give yourself and the VC the gift of slowing down and remaining present in your conversation together. Enjoy that interaction to the fullest even if it’s the last you’ll see each other.

VCs will not invest in you because of your spreadsheets.

They are throwing darts at the wall anyway. 

Why will they invest in you?

Because you were the only one of the hundreds of founders they’ve talked to who made them feel present, listen, and have a mindful conversation with another human being.

They will invest in you because this chat felt different from all the other chats.

And they may have no clue why it did so.

Do you think that they are fully aware of their decision-making system?

These conversations make both of you feel bored or anxious when you’re unconscious.

VCs are not AI machines that analyse your pitch and give you a yes or a no. And you are not a bot either.

Humanise your interactions with VCs. Connect with the person in front of you.

Elevate your consciousness and their consciousness—and get funded!

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Fear of Falling Out with your Cofounder—and How to Overcome it

Having coached 120+ founders, the fear of falling out with a cofounder is the #1 issue I’ve helped my founders with.

Here’s how to overcome it and turn it into massive opportunities.

You want to talk to your cofounder about the things that bother you but you’re worried your relationship will suffer.

Holding these things inside is suffocating and is only building up the tension between you.

Opening up to your cofounder gives you anxiety.

What should you do?

Focus on the right question:

Which need of yours is not being met?

A conversation goes south when you tell your cofounder what they do wrong instead of what you truly need.

Telling them what you need and asking for their support takes courage.

It often requires you to be vulnerable.

Whereas blaming and criticising … is easy!

Compare the following:

  1. It’s disrespectful when you leave me out of those investor meetings.
  2. I also want to join you when you talk to the investors. I want to feel confident that we’re on track and also learn from them.

Do you feel the difference?

Your cofounder may not know that you want to join those meetings.

They may think that you’d rather work on the product.

They may be trying to become efficient themselves, ie. “you keep hustling with the team and I’ll take care of the investors”.

You can’t always know why your cofounder does what he or she does.

The only thing you know for sure is what you need. 

Communicate that—and find ways that you can support each other.

Remember, what they’re doing may be a sign that they’re struggling with their own fears.

… and that has nothing to do with you.

Don’t assume, don’t blame, don’t criticise, don’t evaluate.

Here’s the playbook 👇

1. Is your cofounder doing something that’s affecting your well-being?

Tell them how you’re feeling in relation to what they’re doing.

Focus on facts.

This is not blaming. You help them see something about you that they don’t see.

2. Tell them what you really need and why.

Not the type “I need you to be more respectful”

This is an evaluation (“you’re not respectful”)—not your true need.

3. Propose actions that will satisfy your need.

“Can you send me an email with… Can you create a document… Can you talk to them and…”

“Is that okay with you? Would you be able to do that for me?”

4. Listen to them. Be a coach for them.

Ask them how they’re feeling and what they need.

If they react or become emotional, help them filter through their own unnecessary blaming and criticising.

Help them see and communicate what they truly need.

Every time you reach an agreement by going through this process, your relationship will get stronger and will build trust.

You will trust that you can resolve issues together.

A tough conversation is always a hidden opportunity.

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Bill Campbell’s 33 Leadership Principles

Bill Campbell was Silicon Valley’s most impactful coach.

He coached Steve Jobs, Larry Page, Sergey Brin, Eric Schmidt, Sheryl Sandberg, and Ben Horowitz among others.

Bill’s 34 leadership and strategy principles:

#1 – Your Title Makes You a Manager, Your People Make You a Leader.

How do you earn the respect of your people?

Certainly not by being a dictator and telling them what the hell to do.

Make sure people feel valued being in the room with you.

Project humility and selflessness.

#2 – It’s the People.

Your top priority as a manager is the well-being and success of your people.

Help people excel and grow.

Give them the tools, information, training, and coaching they need to succeed.

Free them to do their jobs and make decisions.

#3 – Start with Trip Reports.

People want to talk to you about other things than just the job.

To build rapport and better relationships, start team meetings with trip reports or other types of personal, non-business topics.

#4 – Get your 1:1’s Right

Have a structure for 1:1’s and take the time to prepare for them, as they’re the best way to help people be more effective and to grow.

Start with nonwork stuff—and then move to performance.

#5 – Best Idea, Not Consensus.

Bill hated consensus.

Consensus leads to “groupthink” and inferior decisions.

Your role as a manager is to make sure all perspectives get heard and considered.

But if the best idea doesn’t emerge, you have to force it or make it yourself.

#6 – Lead Based on First Principles.

What are those immutable truths and values that are the foundation for your company?

When faced with a tough decision, help the team guide the decision from those principles.

You can argue opinions, but you can’t argue first principles.

#7 – Manage the Aberrant Genius.

It’s worth investing energy in coaching the diva, the star performer who’s a pain to work with.

Support them and let them run as long as their behavior isn’t unethical or abusive.

Show zero tolerance though if they do more harm than good.

#8 – Money’s Not Just About the Money.

Money is a signalling device for recognition.

Be generous.  

Compensating people well demonstrates love and respect—and ties them strongly to the goals of the company.

#9 – Innovation Is Where the Crazy People Have Stature.

Give your engineers or the people who create products some freedom.

Not being a conformist is a strength.

#10 – Let People Leave with Their Heads Held High.

If you have to let people go, be generous, treat them well, with respect.

Send out a note internally celebrating their accomplishments.

“You cannot let them keep their job, but you can let them keep their respect”, Bill said.

#11 – Build an Envelope of Trust.

Trust means you keep your word.

Trust means loyalty. To each other, to your team and company.

Trust means integrity. Being honest and expecting the same.

Trust doesn’t mean you always agree, rather it makes it easier to disagree!

#12 – Only Coach the Coachable.

What makes a person coachable?

• Honesty and humility

• Willingness to persevere and work hard

• Constant openness to learning.

If they don’t meet these criteria, they won’t get far in the coaching relationship.

#13 – Practice Free-Form Listening.

Listen to people with your full and undivided attention.

Don’t think ahead to what you’re going to say next.

When you listen, people feel valued.

#14 – No Gap Between Statements and Fact.

Be relentlessly honest and candid.

Say what you really think in a way that still lets people know you care.

Give feedback asap, and if the feedback is negative, deliver it privately.

#15 – Don’t Stick It in Their Ear.

Don’t tell people what to do.

Offer stories and help guide them to the best decisions for themselves.

You need people to buy in.

Support them, inspire them—but let them and figure out what to do.

#16 – Be the Evangelist for Courage.

Believe in people more than they believe in themselves and push them to be more courageous.

Your people will be naturally afraid of taking risks for fear of failure. 

It’s your job to push them past their reticence.

#17 – Full Identity Front and Center.

People are most effective when they are themselves and bring their full identity to work.

Others can sense when you’re not being yourself—and that breeds distrust.

Resist that pressure to conform. What makes you different is your strength.

#18 – Team First.

You can’t get anything done without a team.

So the most important thing to look for in people is a team-first attitude.

That the team wins has to be the most important thing.

#19 – Work the Team, Then the Problem.

Managers tend to focus on the problem. 

What is the situation? What are the options?

When faced with a problem, the #1 step is to ensure the right team is in place and working on it.

Think harder about the team rather than the problem.

#20 – Pick the Right Players.

The top characteristics to look for are smarts and hearts:

• Ability to learn fast

• Willingness to work hard

• integrity

• Grit

• Empathy

• Team-first attitude.

#21 – Pair People.

Peer relationships are critical and often overlooked. 

Seek opportunities to pair people up on projects or decisions.

#22 – Everyone Needs to Be at the Table.

Winning depends on having the best team.

And to have the best team, you need diversity.

#23 – Solve the Biggest Problem.

Identify the biggest problem, the “elephant in the room,” and tackle it first.

Tension arises when the process hasn’t led to the best decision—and the personalities take over.

Spot the tension and force a decision no matter how hard it is.

#24 – Don’t Let the Bitch Sessions Last.

Air all the negative issues, but don’t dwell on them. 

Move on as fast as possible.

It’s important to get out the negative and vent emotions, but that has to happen quickly so the team can direct its energy to solutions.

#25 – Winning Right.

Strive to win, but always win right, with commitment, teamwork, and integrity.

#26 – Leaders Lead.

When things are going bad, you can’t afford to doubt. You need to commit. 

You can make mistakes, but you can’t have one foot in and one foot out.

Because if you’re not fully committed, then your people around you won’t be either.

If you’re in, be in.

#27 – Fill the Gaps Between People.

Listen, observe, and fill the communication and understanding gaps between people.

Pay attention to body language, mood shifts, side conversations and spot when someone is frustrated. 

Listen and watch intently to correct miscommunication.

#28 – It’s OK to Love.

Love is a word you don’t hear a lot in business settings.

But the people on your team are people.

Treat everyone as a person. Professional, personal, family, emotions… all the components wrapped up in one.

#29 – To Care About People, You Have To Care About People.

Ask about their lives outside of work, understand their families, and when things get rough, show up.

You have to take the time to smell the roses and the roses are your people.

#30 – Cheer Demonstrably for People and Their Success.

Bill would clap and cheer, give double fist pumps, be out of his seat and get everyone else excited!

Don’t just sit there, stand up and show people the love for the work they are doing.

#31 – Help People and Build Community.

Be generous with your time, connections, and other resources. Do favours.

Bring two people together if they’ll both benefit from the connection.

#32 – Build Relationships Whenever You Can.

When you’re in the elevator, passing someone in the hallway, or see your teammates in the cafeteria, take the time to stop and chat.

#33 – Love the Founders.

Protect the people with the most vision and passion for the company.

Heart and soul matter.

As the company grows, ensure that founders stay engaged in a meaningful way regardless of their operating role.

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The Five Dysfunctions of a Team

Sequoia’s Alfred Lin mentioned this book in a 2014 Stanford lecture about culture.

Probably the best book on how to build a great team.

Here are the 5 dysfunctions of a team—and 5 actionable tips you can use to fix them:

1. Absence of Trust.

No trust means that people are afraid to open up to one another. They are unwilling to admit their mistakes, weaknesses, and concerns. They spend their time and energy managing their behaviour rather than focusing on their jobs.

2. Fear of Conflict.

If people don’t trust each other, they don’t engage in unfiltered and passionate debate. They may have tension—passive, sarcastic, subtle comments—but not constructive conflict in which honest opinions and concerns make it to the surface.

3. Lack of Commitment.

When people don’t unload their opinions or don’t feel like they’ve been listened to, they don’t really get on board. They may feign agreement during meetings but they don’t buy in and commit.

4. Avoidance of Accountability.

Without committing to a clear plan, even the most driven and focused people don’t hold their peers to account for high standards of performance. Because… they didn’t buy into those decisions, they didn’t agree to these things in the first place!

5. Inattention of Results.

Without trust, debate, commitment and accountability, why care? People put their individual needs (ego, career development, recognition) above the collective goals of the team.


It all makes sense, right? It’s not the first time you heard about trust and commitment. It’s a simple model, but in practice, it’s not easy to implement. It takes reps and doesn’t happen overnight. 

Here are 5 things you can do:

• The leader must walk the talk and demonstrate vulnerability first. Send a clear signal to the team that it’s safe to take risks. This is how you install a culture of trust.

• Invest in time together that goes outside the scope of work. Go round and share one weakness that each one has. It has to be a real weakness that can affect the success of the team. Tell the team what support you’ll need from them while you’re working on your weakness.

• Reframe conflict. Make it explicit that constructive conflict is a good and necessary thing. Start meetings with “What are we debating today?” Meetings are boring because there’s no real debate. If it gets heated, explain that this is a necessary process.

• Make sure everyone is heard in meetings. Pay attention to those who haven’t talked. People don’t have to get their way in a discussion. They just need to be heard, and to know that their input was considered and responded to.

• Remind the team why you’re holding them to account: you want them and the team to succeed. Tell them that it may feel uncomfortable for you to call them out on something. Ask them to call you out when they think that your standards are low.

Loving you, Angelos.

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I will Always be Happy and Unhappy

The more I grow, the more I realise that my happiness has NOTHING to do with my endeavours.

Even the noblest ones…

I’ve been fantasising about the idea that leading a life of meaning, deep purpose, strong values, service to others is THE secret to happiness.

Because the whole Internet is about that… so I believed it too.

But that didn’t make me HAPPY, I mean, it didn’t remove unhappiness from my life.

Happiness is a feeling and feelings are like bitcoin. They go up and down.

And I have absolutely no clue what makes them go up or down.

You can beat the market by flipping a coin, and you can lose too. Make sure you know that all you do is flipping a coin!

What I’m working on (at least for today): Being happy with being happy or unhappy.

I probably have more chances of “becoming” happy (and a bitcoin millionaire) when one day I’ll finally truly get it that I can’t control neither my happiness nor bitcoin.

And I apologise if I come back to you next week with THE secret… (Oh sh*t, I’m sure this post contradicts many of my older posts… 😐)

I have no answers for myself or for you, my friend.

But I’m writing all this with love for myself and for you.

And ha! That’s already making me a little happier…

Loving you, Angelos

PS: This boy made me so happy the other day! 🐑 😊

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Should the Leader be Vulnerable?

Should a leader be vulnerable? Can a leader be *too* vulnerable? I don’t know…

One part of me (the idealist) goes… yeah go full-on vulnerable… this will help people build trust with you, you show leadership by allowing and inviting them to be vulnerable, and you make them feel good about themselves, others, and you.

Another part (the mathematician) goes… Bro, remember game theory and the prisoner’s dilemma? Cut all this romantic leadership BS and stick to your Nash strategy…

Another part (the psychologist) goes… If A shows up very vulnerable to B, that may trigger B’s anxiety which can lead to impulsive and irrational decisions. And then A goes… “Hey bro, chill… I was just trying to build trust with you by being vulnerable!!” Oh nooo!!! Too late!

Another thing is, followers want strong leaders who make them feel safe. This has roots in prehistoric tribes, cavemen and is as relevant today I guess.

And then the law of large numbers comes to mind… If you perform the same experiment a large number of times, you’ll get there, ie. by being vulnerable, in the short term you may suffer a big loss, but in the long term it can make people see you through different eyes, ie. strong, trustworthy, a hero… or an idiot maybe!!??? Not sure… what do you think?

It’s probably instinct and doing what feels right in the moment??? Terrible advice, I know!

This is what one of my mentors, leader, and partner at Goldman Sachs Harit said:

I like the situationally agile and adept. And the reassurance too. Valid point. That made me think, how about a hybrid model:

“It’s really tough, right now I don’t have a clue how we’re gonna get out of this (vulnerability)…

BUT (a la neuro-linguistic programming you’re diminishing what you’ve just said)

…. I know for sure we’ll find a way (reassurance).

Here’s another perspective:

That reminded me of Aristotle. In the Nichomachean Ethics, Aristotle coins the term mesotes, an orientation toward the mean between “too much” and “too little”. But mesotes is not the average or middle point; rather it’s a function of several variables such as the situation, the people, the time, the place, etc. So for Jan above, there are certain cases where he knows for sure from experience (learning) that he shouldn’t let “romantic ideals force through decisions”. So the mesotes can be one of the extremes in specific cases because in those cases this is what experience has shown to be the right policy.

Here’s a business owner perspective:

So, in certain cases who cares about your vulnerability? Let them share their story and decide whether to be vulnerable or not!

Also, another thing that I’m thinking is… No matter what the “objective” perception of win or loss is, there is also the subjective experience. One can source a lot of power and fulfillment in doing what they think and believe is right (values, principles, ethics, etc.), ie. in this instance: not being afraid of appearing vulnerable. So one may have lost it all but they can still feel extremely proud of themselves, content, and strong believing that they did the right thing.

What are your thoughts?

With love, Angelos.

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Is “I am not good enough” real?

If sometimes you think you’re not good enough and some other times you don’t think you are not good enough (you think something else), are you sure you are not good enough?

Does “I’m not good enough” really mean something?

Because if in a given moment you can pick “I’m not good enough” and in another moment you can pick “I’m good enough” or something else, I question the “I’m not good enough” being a real thing.

If right now you’re feeling frustrated, are you a frustrated person? Is frustrated written next to your name in your passport?

Do frustrated or “not good enough” have flesh?

Or you are a human being like all human beings who can think and feel anything at any given moment?

Loving you, Angelos.