My banking friends,
There is one thing that’s missing in banking.
And those who tap into that thing can get to incredible heights.
That thing is more play.
What do you mean “more play”, Angelos?
I mean:
- Being yourself and encouraging others to be themselves.
- Expressing thoughts and feelings.
- Showing vulnerability.
- Trusting people, not being afraid to “be exposed”.
- Having personal conversations—talking about things other than “the job”.
- Exploring the human side of the investment banker.
- Laughing and having more fun.
- Asking questions and remaining curious.
- Challenging others from the space of wonder and curiosity.
- Saying hello to that random person and getting to know them.
- Asking for something and believing that they want to give it to you.
More play is really doing the things that you and others would love to do without being afraid of the consequences.
More play means allowing your creativity to express itself more fully.
Loving you, Angelos
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