In this article, I will show you my 6-step formula that will help you to let go of your perfectionism.
This formula is based on three elements: curiosity, awareness, and compassion.
I’m against changing any behaviour unless ALL the following questions are fully answered:
- What is the behaviour (with specific examples)?
- How does it affect your life?
- Why do you want to change it?
- Is there anything good about it?
- What could the reasons be for adopting this behaviour?
- What would your life look like without this behaviour?
- What exactly do you need to change?
- What would be a realistic and effective plan for changing the behaviour—or introducing a new one?
Perfectionism may create discomfort—emotional and physical pain.
You may have realised that it can sabotage your happiness.
However, a compassionate approach is essential for overcoming perfectionism.
This is a journaling exercise in which you have to answer the questions related to each step.